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Can I Be Frank?

by Dear Daria

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1.
Best Life 03:15
There's a party out in Park View tonight It's a short ride away, but it'll be alright Because we are living our best life I've got a feeling all the best kids are there Singing about all the love we should share 'Cause we are living our best life Isn't it lucky we've got each other Aren't you glad you made it here? Tell all your friends where it's all going down Marvel at how fast the word gets around That we are living our best life I lost track of time and danced until 3 This is exactly where we needed to be 'Cause we are living our best life I don't have the answers to life's big questions But when we're together it all comes clear That sometimes the distance that you've traveled can't be measured out in miles And that's not just point of view It's true nobody lives forever, but these moments were made to last So I'm spending them with you Tonight we're game for whatever Life's too short to let it pass We're all in this thing together So take this moment and make it last
2.
Dopamachine 02:57
Spend all day staring at screens Never knowing what any of it means Robots fighting for your time Ones and zeroes line by line Validating swipes and scrolls Algorithmic mind control And we’re all players in this game But to them we’re all the same They’re screaming Feed me information Give me all your thoughts and time Log in, zone out, this is what your life’s about If you can call it life at all Dopamine hit with each beep Got you sucked in way too deep The hooks are in and won’t let go They’ll pump you for everything that you know They’re screaming Feed me information Give me all your thoughts and time Log in, zone out, this is what your life’s about If you can call it life at all Constant connectivity Has made it so that we can’t see We’re data on a graph With every heart, thumbs up, and laugh I’m more than just information I’m not a product you can buy So take these lines and give me back my time I’m not an object in your store And I don’t need you anymore
3.
John Hughes 04:31
Close your eyes Imagine that we're both standing In the rain On a summer afternoon Somebody said This all feels so familiar But nobody could say why Now here we are It's just like a John Hughes movie You feel it too There's something in the air You'll be the boy The one with the reputation I'll be the girl From the wrong side of the tracks Eccentric and vain Anything but ordinary Their stories go on and on and on and on and on Now here we are It's just like a John Hughes movie You feel it too There's something in the air Clever and cruel Each moment never-ending Take us back to relive it again and again and again Take my hand Rewind the video cassette Bring me back there And never let me go Now here we are It's just like a John Hughes movie You feel it too There's something in the air Clever and cruel Each moment never-ending Take us back to relive it again and again and again
4.
Delaware 03:06
Hi, I'm in Delaware And I'm just calling to say that I miss you And all the stupid antics we'd get up to Things just haven't been the same But at the end of this tour I'm coming home Rolling down 95 with the windows down and the music up We're adventuring in our own special way Do you remember watching Wayne's World on the couch Reciting every single line We did that dumb shit all the time Museum hopping, record shopping These were the things that made sense When did we stop getting magically whisked away When did we succumb to the mundane day to day Hi, I'm in Delaware And I'm just calling to say that I miss you And all the stupid antics we'd get up to Things just haven't been the same But at the end of this tour I'm coming home Static and whistles from the dial up machine Would drown out all the sounds around And voices in between The ones that said that we're not worthy And that we should walk away But we would not bow down And just look at us now Risk-taking, record-breaking We came here to play, so game on Do you ever think about the way things used to be I fall to pieces when nostalgia gets the best of me Hi, I'm in Delaware And I'm just calling to say that I miss you And all the stupid antics we'd get up to Things just haven't been the same Will this stand the test of time, nobody knows But at the end of this tour I'm coming home
5.
The second hand on the clock counts down to midnight As the coffee maker brews its second pot Anxious toe taps convey consternation Caffeine jitters, or maybe not Aspiration meets hesitation But inspiration is just outside the door Do you hear our voices shouting from outside? Can’t you hear us calling out your name? If you want to disappear to anywhere but here You’re the only thing that’s standing in your way In your head you’re doing calculations Weighing pros and cons like you always do But it’s time to turn it off, time to get moving After all the shit they put you through Deliberation, too much contemplation How much more of this will you endure? Do you hear our voices shouting from outside? Can’t you hear us calling out your name? If you want to disappear to anywhere but here You’re the only thing that’s standing in your way Wish her luck ‘cause there she goes Off to someplace she don’t know So fed up with the status quo It all stopped mattering long ago No excuse, no time to waste She smells freedom and needs a taste Done with waiting, must make haste Get the fuck out leave no trace Do you hear our voices shouting from outside? Can’t you hear us calling out your name? If you want to disappear to anywhere but here You’re the only thing that’s standing in your way
6.
Never thought I’d see the day Never thought I’d feel this way And yet here we stand A moment passed, the sun went down How did we get so turned around This was not what we planned Like candles on a birthday cake We burned so bright, now just a haze And I forget how things went wrong But we once believed in fate Now everything’s changing I fear I’m changing too Nothing ever stays the same As we want it to Everything was so intense Now it doesn’t make much sense at all But that’s okay In these moments we are high It’s now or never, do or die At least for today ‘Cause people come and people go And people you will never know Feel every feeling that you feel A million miles away Now everything’s changing I fear I’m changing too Nothing ever stays the same As we want it to It’s time to move on now It’s time that we find our way Out in the real world Where it’s just another day All the places that you’ve known All the spaces you’ve called “home” Every smile and every tear Every minute of every year And all the progress that you’ve made A bittersweet hit parade Of every lover and every friend And everything you thought would never end We've been through torrential rain Dealt with heartache, lived with pain In the end it'll be okay And if it's not, it's not the end Now everything’s changing I fear I’m changing too Nothing ever stays the same As we want it to
7.
Vai Se Foder 03:24
Don’t accuse me of not listening When you refused to speak Don’t make me feel bad for being strong Just because you were too weak Avoidance is so easy Denial’s just the same But hiding your head beneath the sand Won’t take away your shame Don’t you dare play the part of the victim Because you’re afraid to act And don’t try to twist the truth around To make fiction look like fact There’s no reward in cowardice No glory in running away Time will keep on passing by And you’ll still bear this blame Vai se foder Vai se foder Don’t even think for a second That ignorance makes you immune And don’t bother with the pretense We all know the problem was you But sadness doesn’t serve us Revenge won’t make us whole Forgiveness is far too good for you But they say that it’s good for the soul
8.
I’ll do whatever it takes to prove them wrong For better or worse this is my song It doesn’t matter what the odds may be Fight tooth and nail to get ahead Don’t plan on sleeping ‘til I’m dead Come at me with all you’ve got You don’t scare me Just give me a shot and I’ll take it I’m a pro at faking it ‘til you make it You may think I’m weak I think I disagree I’ve heard every word that you’ve said The echoes loud in my head And I’m here to tell you That I will not back down Move out of the way, I’ve got ambition to feed And if you can’t give me what I need Leave me alone and let me live my truth The history books won’t write this down No written record will be found I’m just here to do what I set out to do So don’t blame me if you’re intimidated It’s not my fault you feel emasculated Just let me do me and I’ll let you do you I’ve heard every word that you’ve said The echoes loud in my head And I’m here to tell you That I will not back down They put these shackles on me And I’m gonna fight ‘til I’m free They won’t hold me long ‘Cause I will not back down I’ve heard every word that you’ve said The echoes loud in my head And I’m here to tell you That I will not back down They put these shackles on me And I’m gonna fight ‘til I’m free They won’t hold me long ‘Cause I will not back down
9.
Move Along 03:28
Somebody pinch me I must be dreaming But I don’t want to Get out of bed just yet I need some time Some time to process All the inconceivable Damage that’s been done But now it’s done Now it’s over And everyone around will say It’s time to move along It’s peculiar Ain’t seen nothing like it It’s funny how these hands played out And where the dice did fall It’s not complicated Just close the circle Tie up all your loose ends ‘Til only you remain Because it’s done Because it’s over And the time has come To finally move along So let’s not linger Let’s not dwell There’s more than one way through this Just as far as I can tell When the going gets tough The tough get going So watch me go Everyone’s a critic Everyone pretends We won’t be the last ones To defend Let’s not linger Let’s not dwell There’s more than one way through this Just as far as I can tell When the going gets tough The tough get going So watch me go Watch me go Watch me go Watch me go

about

Dear Daria’s exuberant debut, Can I Be Frank?, perfectly balances humor with authenticity. The album title is a nod to a scene in Wayne’s World 2. Josh remembers: “When the record came into focus, I thought ‘we have to call it Can I Be Frank?’ That title speaks to the no-frills honesty that epitomizes the songs on the album.” Eamonn agrees, and says: “It sums up so many things about the themes and nostalgia on the record. We have fun and joke around, but the whole reason we make music is to connect with people on an emotional level. The title says, ‘Can I be real with you? Do you get this? Can I share it with you?’”

Dear Daria’s debut single, and the album’s anthemic opening track, “Best Life,” bursts with sugar-rush pop-punk hooks, rubbery melodic bass, and pounding drums. The song is a celebration of friendship, and its lyrics boast sweet sentimentality with lines such as: I don’t have the answers to life’s big questions/But when we’re together it all comes clear.
On “John Hughes,” Dear Daria plays with 1980s new wave sophistication, leaving ample space for well-focused melodic statements as they conjure up memories of the breezy romance of the filmmaker’s classic movies; when the pent-up romance bursts, the couple finally comes together and floats away in a balmy gust of teenage love.

The song “Delaware” represents a special place in the band’s collective heart, as it’s one of the first songs that made Dear Daria feel like a real band. The song places a Wayne’s World reference into a Beatlesque song of love and longing, and sprinkles in some 1990s heart-on-your-sleeve sincerity. Dear Daria shares some scathing social media commentary on the gritty pop-punk tune, “Dopamachine,” which blends seething verses with syrupy choruses. “That song is about the dark underbelly of social media where a tool of seemingly honest connection is used to gather information about people and manipulate them so that big corporations can sell us something,” Maryjo says.

Nineties nostalgia is upon us, and Dear Daria are the perfect purveyors of tuneful heart-on-sleeve alt-rock. With an assured artistic identity, a debut album filled with sharp hooks, and the pandemic lifting, nothing can stop Dear Daria now.

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released May 27, 2022

Maryjo Mattea - vox, guitar, keys
Joshua Hunter - guitar, backing vox
Eamonn Donnelly - bass
Scott Manley - drums

Written by Maryjo Mattea, Joshua Hunter, Eamonn Donnelly, and Scott Manley
Engineered by Ben Green at Ivakota Studios & Kyle Downes
Mixed by Ben Green at Ivakota Studios
Mastered by Mark Peteritas at Working Man's Productions
Published by Maryjo Mattea Music
Artwork by Eamonn Donnelly

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Dear Daria Washington, D.C.

Washington, DC-based four-piece Dear Daria writes storyteller songs about angst, love, social commentary, mental health, and a longing for the world to be the kind of safe and accepting place we all wished we lived in. Dear Daria is a brightly-colored swirl of power pop, indie rock, alt-rock, and pop punk. Frontwoman Maryjo Mattea says “it's like if Lennon and McCartney grew up in the 90s”. ... more

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